Sunday, May 22, 2016

[Poetry] Mada

"Our ultimate goal, after all, is not a good death but a good life to the very end." - Dr. Atul Gawande, Being Mortal: Medicine and What Matters in the End

Wednesday, April 6, 2016

[Poetry] 2 Abril 2016

For RC

All travel this journey - even you -
Yes, you. Although the isolation surrounds you
As you stand in the middle of that intersection
Your tearful contemplation worsens the agony
As passerbys salsa to the left
                                   or tango to the right
But they move forward

Your heart, she beats a rhythm as beautiful as you are.
She is unique to you - only you -

Follow her
     as if
          your life
               needs her - because it does.
Whether you salsa or tango
At this crossroad in your life
Just remember to dance
In step with your heart.

Tuesday, March 8, 2016

[poetry] Hail Mary, Full of Grace

"Don't change for no one, do you understand me? You are the only person on the team I trusted, and I knew when you said something would be done, I had faith it would be done. Don't let them change you." 
- Patient's parting words of wisdom.

You are not your

You are a woman:
Strong. Courageous. Determined.
Your beautiful womanhood comes from within,
but not from your cervix
    which steals your identity.     

It radiates from:
the Mother Mary amulet
with love you adorned
on the side of the hospital bed
to which you turn
when your pain is unbearable.
    And from your words
    said between your searing outcries:
    Your dignity makes me
    bow my head in humility
    as you apologize for the odor
    from your gas.

You are not your

You say you lost your beauty
and the bags and tubes make you feel
like an alien.

All that flows from you:
    Urine from your kidney tubes,
    Feces from the failed poop bag,
    The gas occasionally released, 
        even the blood pouring from your vagina,
        a reminder of that demonic thief,
Is beautiful:
Because it is you.

You are not your

In fact, they…they are the ugly ones -
for they pray not for your comfort
but for a date of discharge.

Forgive them for seeing only
your past dance with the needle
and denying a dying woman relief:
    Please know that I tried
    and only viewed you with grace
    as you once saw yourself-
        because, through our morning pleasantries,
        I could see you so clearly:
        How radiant you are.

You are not your

Monday, February 1, 2016

[poetry] Your loyal mashed potato plumber sidekick

« La reconnaissance est la mémoire du cœur. » -Jean Massieu
("Gratitude is the memory of the heart")

i see You:
in the recesses of Your mind:
dust in the corner; forgotten.
but someone is there –
Your eyes illuminate Your mental residence.
look! i can see into Your home – how beautiful and cozy!
they extend Your sincerest invitation for company
when Your words cannot,
and i am delighted to accept 
and stay for tea.

Your wife, how she raves about You:
a Husband to one, Father to two, and Friend to all,
a Peacenik, Educator, Lover, and Dreamer...
Your dog misses You, she told me to say,
as he is always curled up on Your side of the bed.

a foreign language You speak;
i am told it is untranslatable –
“neological, slurred, and broken,” they say.
but they ignore Your smile – a universal code
which expresses Your childlike excitement
as You exclaim Your greatest revelation:
“two thimbles might fix the pipe leak
inside the cloudy mashed potatoes!”
let’s find the sewing kit, Sir,
and rejoice in today’s adventure.

time summons my presence. but such a pleasure to meet You!
and may i happily meet You again
for the first time tomorrow, as
i will inevitably disappear
among the lost firings of
neurons when You rest
Your head tonight.
sleep well,
my Dear

maybe one day i will be remembered
as Your loyal mashed potato plumber sidekick…
but so long as Your home shines bright
and the company tea simmers quietly on the stove top
even when Your light dims
i vow to care for You, always.